Category Opinions

What is gender conformity anyway?

Let’s be real, gender conformity is just patriarchy’s dress code. It’s the unspoken rulebook we’re all handed at birth, stuffed with commandments about how to perform “man” or “woman” correctly, as if humanity came with a binary instruction manual. This…

Shattering the Shell: My Journey to Authenticity

A colourful flower with rainbow petals, growing through the cracks of a grey piece of concrete. Representing the transgender girl appearing though the cracks of the 'male' wall she used to mask her true self.

Living My Truth, No Matter What They Say Growing up in a big city in the ’80s and ’90s, bigotry wasn’t just tolerated—it was practically a national pastime. Homophobic and transphobic slurs flew around like seagulls at a seaside chippy,…

Persistent Affirmation

By Jenna Bowyer The words “respect” and “dignity” have, this past week especially, been used in place of positive avowal by those who’re actively removing our hard-fought rights, turning our lives upside-down, politely. In place of affirmation (trans women are…

Coming Out Isn’t a Choice — It’s Survival

The idea that being transgender is some kind of casual lifestyle choice — like picking a new pair of jeans — is a masterclass in ignorance. It’s usually floated by people who’ve never had to spend even five minutes questioning…